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Somebody attracts me!!!!!!!!


Uptown girl
You know I can’t afford to buy her pearls..
But maybe someday when my ship comes in..
She’ll understand what kind of guy I’ve been..
And then I’ll win..

Uptown girl
She is my uptown girl..
You know I’m in love
With an uptown girl..
……….Billy Joel

Falling in love is a magical experience that happens between two people. But still I don't understand why do people fall in love?

When a person finds someone they are attracted to who also seems to be attracted to them they feel the opportunity to expand themselves. While penning down my thoughts, the movie Shrek popped into my mind. In the movie, Lord Farquad wants to find love just so he can become king. It makes me think that he wants to expand his "self" and power.

So is that all love is, a ‘Fake” emotion or is it really a word used to show a strong "relationship". While the duel with regards to is bound to continue let me get back to reason why I started this post.

This post was not entirely about “why we fall in Love” but was more about me being “attracted” towards someone and am sure this is not “Infatuation” (just in case some of the “Love-Guru’s” might think of it that ways)

Right now you can say I’m on the Primary Stages of this “fatal disease” where all that matters to me is to “ catch a glimpse of her”, meeting her, talking to her and if it would be my lucky day then probably sharing some time together (Though I don’t think I can ever get lucky in love, just being realistic).

The reason why I call this as a “Primary Stage” is coz you love the feeling of being in this stage, as for me it brings smile to my face just thinking the way she talks, smiles, dresses (well the list could be endless and I might go on and on)

But then reality sinks in and a thought or thoughts flash in my mind –
“Am I the right guy for her or is she the right girl for me? Perhaps this is the dilemma that has stopped me from confessing my love for her.”
“Will she say Yes if I ask her out?”

So many if’s and but’s, falling in love was easy but confessing it is really difficult especially for a guy. (Pearls of wisdom from a great mind of mine..lolz)

I wish I had the powers of Mel Gibson from the movie “What Women Want” and would be able read her mind. Maybe one day I would be able to read her mind without those powers (Here is hoping for the best , am die-hard optimist you see)

Till then to all my friends wish me luck because am suffering from “LOVE”
And my Uptown Girl I miss you!


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  1. Tiny Paws CareSeptember 30, 2009 at 9:16 PM

    This is an interesting topic. I don't mean to be rude, but dude we need to take risk. Without risk you cannot achieve anything. Go ahead propose her and don't think whether she will say yes or no. Because if you don't, you will regret it one day thinking may be i should have proposed her..

    How can you know whether she is the right person or not if you don't go out with her. After going out with her if you find out that she is not the right person, you can just dump her and find a new girl. You are worrying as if she is the only girl on the planet.

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  2. DayDreamerOctober 1, 2009 at 2:20 PM

    Hey Dude..

    Life is so full of choices..n remember luck favors the brave.
    Go out n tell her your feelings. Maybe she would have the same thoughts as u..just that she would be waiting for you to take the first step.

    Waiting to hear the "Good News"

    P.S. That's a real classic and nice song by Billy Joel.

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