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Why we are so confused

Few months back I meet a girl , who is 6 years elder to me we became friends. In some meeting we went intimate and started liking each other. But after that she felt that things are going too fast and we are complete strangers to our backgrounds, ambitions and attitudes.

So we thought of spending time together just like any normal friends do and check for ourselves how compatible we are. Things were going fine with me when one day she said that I must not call her often as it makes her think about my intentions. I don't understand what went wrong.

I love her with all my heart and soul but she is confused. What is important in a relationship Love or Compatibility.

"Hi all this is my first blog post , I request all fellow blogger to help me out i m totally confused."

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  1. AnnAugust 26, 2009 at 10:23 AM

    Hey Dude ! May be that gal was confused herself... So, she changed her thought for you... Now stop thinking about that.. Learn from this experience and go try to find a person who's more compatibile with you.. Do't fall into a relationship just for a heck of it.. First make friends, and then think about a relationship.. :) till then you enjoy life.

    And yeah, one more thing, welcome to the Blogging word...Blogging is a great way to express your emotions... I know you'll enjoy it :)

    Gud Luck,
    Ann

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  2. Vineet VermaAugust 26, 2009 at 4:39 PM

    hmm i vil keep ur advice in mind

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  3. Vineet VermaAugust 27, 2009 at 5:16 PM

    There is nothing like laughing... I agree with your post "Untitled !!!" and i guesses being alone is better then being lonely.

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